Prayers for 15th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Paul Martin

You can download a copy of these prayers here. 

“To clasp hands in prayer is the beginning of an uprising” – Karl Barth

Dom Helder Camara was a remarkable man. A Bishop in a poor area in North East Brazil he made quite an impact standing alongside the poor and marginalised. Famously, he said that when he fed the poor, people called him a saint but when he questioned why there was such poverty he was swiftly dismissed as a communist. This was very dangerous in the period in which Brazil was ruled by a brutal military dictatorship. Indeed on one occasion he was visited by a gunman who announced he had come to assassinate Dom Helder. Ultimately the gunman left without carrying out the deed because he realised that Dom Helder was a man of God.

Dom Helder was one of the most prominent exponents of what came to be liberation theology. This is reflected in his prayers. At times they are deeply uncomfortable such as this one:

“Come, Lord,
do not smile and say you are already with us.
Millions do not know you,
and to us who do,
what is the difference?
What is the point of your presence
if our lives do not alter?
Change our lives,
shatter our complacency.
Make your word our life’s purpose.
Take away the quietness of a clear conscience.
Press us uncomfortably.
For only thus
that other peace is made,
your peace.”

This prayer for young people is also full of challenge:

“Lord this world needs
this wonderful wealth that is youth.
Help young people!
They possess the inexhaustible wealth
of the future.
Do not allow an easy life
to corrupt them,
Nor difficulties to quench their spirit
Amen.”

Dom Helder Camara remains a powerful example to us that Barth was correct. May at the right times our prayers be the beginning of an uprising!

PRAYER SUGGESTIONS

1/. Pray that a more just society be built on the ashes of this pandemic.

2/. Pray that in our church life we might dream big dreams

3/. Pray for all who are this day walking through the valleys of death, despair or pain whilst giving thanks for all who by words and deeds give reason to believe in life, hope and healing.

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Prayers for 14th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Paul Martin

You can download a copy of these prayers here. 

A friend once suggested to me that his church prayer meeting is often the setting for big competition. The basis of the competition was who could use the most flowery language. I think the notion is a bit unfair at least judging from prayer meetings I have attended. However, there is when approaching a God of wonders a powerful impulse to use the language of poetry to express ourselves. How else can we approach the One who is beyond our comprehension let alone mundane words?

But prayer can often be more raw than this. It sometimes comes more from the guts than the head. As Anne Lamott has observed the two most real prayers are “Help me, help me, help me” and “Thank you, thank you, thank you.” There is something very authentic about such prayers, particularly at this time. We all have moments when such cries are where we are at, but with the current pandemic this is, I suspect, where most of us are. The challenges of the current situation are so great that we are unable to see with any clarity the way ahead. But amidst our very real fears we are grateful for those who help us, even at great risk to themselves

There is a Biblical tradition of lament. We see it in many of the Psalms and particularly powerfully in the Book of Lamentations. Lives have caved in and with nowhere else to turn our authors, often having poured their hearts out, then look in desperation to God whose goodness they recall. After this they beg for God’s help. I believe that is our current situation. After all, in a world of change and turmoil the love of God is one thing that is constant.

As we offer thanks and cry for help, we are joining ourselves with others who have lived through tempestuous times. We seek our refuge in the unchanging love of God. As the hymn often sung in times of crisis puts it:

“O God, our help in ages past,
our hope for years to come,
our shelter from the stormy blast,
and our eternal home.”

May we cry out for help from God whilst not forgetting to thank God for those people and happenings for which we have reason to be grateful.

PRAYER SUGGESTIONS

1/. Bring all the anxieties and fears you have to God asking for help.

2/. Give thanks for those who are helping us individually and as a nation to get through these times as well as for all people and resources that make life worth living even in these tempestuous times.

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Prayers for 13th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Paul Martin

You can download a copy of these prayers here. 

Every so often I encounter people whose approach to prayer is one of “Name it, Claim it!” All sorts of things are claimed such as parking spaces, outcome of football matches and even the results of elections. The trouble with all of this is that it seems to me to reduce prayer to the level of some sort of holy magic.

The trouble with this approach is that even earnest prayer does not always produce the undoubtedly good outcome for which we pray. I have prayed for people I have loved and troubled situations in our world to seemingly no avail. And yet it seems right to to go on praying. Why? Because scripture encourages us to do so.

Luke tells a parable about a widow and an unjust judge. He begins the episode with the following verse:

“Then Jesus told his disciples a parable to show them they should always pray and not give up”
(Luke 18 v1)

St. Paul writing his first letter to the church in Thessolonica writes:

“Pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.”
(1 Thessolonians 5 v17-18)

In the Gospels we find Jesus building prayer into the rhythm of his life even on the night in which he was betrayed. As for the great interpreter and missionary that was St. Paul, we find him regularly assuring the churches he was involved with of his prayers for them. Sometimes he gives thanks for them. Other times he prays for their spiritual growth.

So, prayer is not a fancy option but an essential part of being in Christ. And it deepens our relationship with God.

Sometimes in prayer we focus on the wonder of God. As we express our adoration, we ourselves gain as we are reminded of the nature of a God who is creative, loving, faithful and merciful as well as being so much more. In prayers of adoration we find assurance of God is truly good beyond compare.

Sometimes we focus on our need of confession. If, as we believe, God is incomparably good we have to be pretty conceited to believe we match up. We need a time to confess both our individual failings and those of our community, nation or whatever. This is about being right with God. And when we reach out to God, we find that God has beaten us to it and offered us forgiveness of the past and encouragement to start again as forgiven people given the opportunity to learn from the past.

Sometimes in prayer our focus is on thanksgiving. We are always in debt to God and have much to be grateful for. If you think back to the story of the ten lepers that Jesus healed of their condition the one who found true wholeness was the Samaritan who came running back to thank Jesus (Luke 17 vs 11-19).

Finally, there are times in prayer when our focus is on other people and situations, sometimes local and sometimes global. Of course, sometimes these prayers do not lead to the outcome we desire but I believe that such prayers are never wasted. It is to be hoped that through such prayers we have in love brought concerns to God. The outcomes may sadden us or even have broken our hearts, but love is never wasted.

Prayer is not about magic. It is so much more important than that. It is about our love outpouring to God through which we come ever closer to God. And whilst there is mystery in the Divine response, we do well to persist. Never give up! Keep on praying!

Prayer Suggestions

Reflect on the wonder of God.
Gratitude for volunteers helping at this time.
Pray for those whose hearts are broken over loved ones.
Retail workers, transport workers and refuse workers.

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Prayers for 12th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Paul Martin

You can download a copy of these prayers here. 

The early months of 2004 were among the most stressful days of my life. I was still working as a lay pastor on the Isle of Man, but I was now going through the early months of candidating for the Methodist ministry. In fact, I had already given in my notice so that the Ramsey Methodist Circuit would be able to appoint a successor to me in good time for that person to be ready to move over in August. I cannot exaggerate my concern at what I was putting my family through. If I was to be turned down, I would be without a home to go to or a job to take on. Indeed, I would have to leave the Island that I had come to love because my work permit would cease.

I found myself working incredibly hard anticipating questions that would come my way at the Connexional selection process at London Olney. In fact, I overprepared and during the two days there was rather eager to make my points. During one of the interviews there was no shutting me up and one of the interviewers looked at me and asked,

“Do you ever get time to listen?”

Listening is a very important part of prayer. Sure, it is good that we are able to express the things on our heart to our Father God. But that is only a part of it. Prayer is also about being able to listen for the voice of God and God’s guidance amidst the noisiness of life. It is not so much me getting my way with God as God getting God’s way with me. It is about enabling God to transform my being and my thinking that in turn may change my doings. As with any relationship, as my wife sometimes reminds me, there needs to be two-way communication.

John Bode puts it well in the hymn “O Jesus I have promised.”

“O let me hear thee speaking
In accents clear and still,
above the storms of passion,
the murmurs of self-will;
O speak to reassure me,
to hasten and control,
Lord speak and make me listen,
O guardian of my soul.”

I hope that is our experience and that prayer might be a two-way process in which our relationship with God is enabled to grow!

POINTS FOR PRAYER

1/. Hospitals and care homes with prayers for staff and patients/residents in this difficult time.

2/. Our churches. That we might find ways of remaining as communities of faith in very different times using new means.

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Prayers for 11th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Cathy Gale

You can download a copy of these prayers here. 

For yesterday’s prayer focus we were reminded that Wesley identified “Works of Piety” (such as Prayer, Searching the Scripture and Holy Communion) and “Works of Mercy” as means of grace – channels through which God engages us in loving relationship.  Today I invite us to focus on what Wesley called “Works of Mercy”.  Perhaps we can translate this rather dated phrase to “Works of Love” or “Acts of Kindness”.

A true story – in my last appointment in Jamaica, the largest church, where the Circuit Office was located, was in a smart, uptown Kingston community surrounded by shops and restaurants.  It was often frequented by men and women who were struggling – some drug addicts, some with severe mental illness, many homeless.  They came because they could make something through begging and could get cheap food from fast food outlets.  Eric was a regular at my church office.  He was a drug addict who had a winsome personality and no matter how many times you helped him out, he always asked again the next time he saw you!  One evening, I was coming out of the church office, heading to the hall to lead a Bible Study.  I was tired and, probably, a bit short tempered.  Eric was there and begging for some help.  I answered him honestly. “Eric, I can’t help you today.  I don’t get paid till the end of the week and I’m broke.”  Eric, looking crestfallen, went away.  I did Bible Study and came out 90 minutes later to see Eric waiting.  My heart fell – I was too tired for another encounter.  But Eric approached me with his hand outstretched and a smile.  “Here, Rev.” he said, “I begged $100 and you can have $50!”  (It was the equivalent of about 50p.)

I’ve never forgotten that episode and what it taught me about helping people – it’s all about relationship.  It’s not a one-way street of me doing something for someone else.  As we help others we are ourselves helped.  It’s not always as stark as in the story I’ve just shared, but John Wesley’s point is that God uses others as a channel of grace, helping us as we help them.

Use your time in prayer today to bring to mind encounters you’ve had with others as you’ve tried to be kind.  Have you been changed by those encounters?

I offer you the image below – a gift to me some years ago – as a symbol of giving, of kindness.  Also, some words from a well-known hymn.  Think about those words – the second half of the verse as well as the first:

Brother, sister, let me serve you;
let me be as Christ to you;
pray that I may have the grace to
let you be my servant too.

Has this time in lockdown caused you to rethink how you might use your time and resources when restrictions are lifted?  Is there anything you can do to help others even now?

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Prayers for 10th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Cathy Gale

You can download a copy of these prayers here. 

John Wesley encouraged the early Methodists to be engaged in what he called “Acts of Piety” and “Acts of Mercy”.  Acts of Piety were disciplines which he said were “means of grace” – practices in the life of the Christian through which God could channel this loving relationship called grace.  The practices included things like Prayer, Searching the Scriptures, Holy Communion and Fasting.  Today I want to focus on Prayer.

I found this candle in my Mum’s house when my sister and I were doing some sorting back in January.  If you look closely it says on it “Pray without ceasing”, a quotation from 1 Thessalonians 5:17.  What struck me was that it was still wrapped up in plastic!  It seemed to me to be a symbol of how we often hold this wonderful gift God offers us – prayer.  It’s full of power and potential, and yet we keep it wrapped in plastic, as if keeping it for a special occasion!

          Oh what peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pain we bear
          All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.

Wesley’s idea of prayer as a means of grace is that it is first and foremost about relationship with God, a relationship that God wants with us.  So today, as you reflect (perhaps using this image of an unlit candle) I invite you to think about these things:

  • How gracious is God’s offer of prayer in the place of worry and anxiety!
    At this anxiety-ridden time, we don’t have to know what words to say, we just need to trust that God is listening.

  • How amazing is the truth that in prayer we meet with the living God – the One who made us and the whole universe!

  • How transforming might prayer be if we would listen as well as speak?

So pause, light your candle (not necessarily literally), and relax in God’s presence.  You are praying.

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Prayers for 9th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Cathy Gale

You can download a copy of these prayers here. 

May is a significant month in the life of the Methodist Church as we remember the “Aldersgate Experience” of John Wesley which transformed his life and began the movement which became Methodism.  There are lots of ways in which we feel restricted during this time of lockdown, but for many of us an opportunity which has emerged has been more time for reflection and prayer.

I’ve embarked on an online course delivered by Wesley House, Cambridge entitled “Growing in Grace: Exploring the Wesleyan Way”.  On Wednesday the course leader, the Revd. Dr. Andrew Stobard, gave this really simple definition of grace:

Grace is a relationship initiated by God, a relationship that exists because God wants it to.

I invite you today to ponder that definitionin your own life and the life of our world.

I offer this image as an aid for your reflection on grace.  The dandelion head (here, amazingly captured in a paperweight) – so fragile on the one hand, and yet able to explode into new growth! Could this describe our relationship with God through grace – so much potential for growth and transformation?

Use your time in prayer today to thank God for grace in your life and bring the world and its needs before God.

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Prayers for 8th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Delyth Liddell, Coordinating Chaplain at Cardiff University

You can download a copy of these prayers here.

God is our refuge and strength,
A very present help in trouble.
Psalm 46:1

Today is the 75th Anniversary of VE Day and many of us will have been expecting to commemorate with street parties and church services.  Instead, unless we are keyworkers, we find ourselves at home, listening to the Queen’s speech at 9am, taking part in the two minute silence at 11am and raising a toast to the heroes of WWII at 3pm with the words, “To those who gave so much, we thank you.”

The day the guns fell silent in Europe was indeed a day of celebration, although the war still raged for some time in Asia and the Pacific.  So today we remember and give thanks for those who gave their lives in times of war, whilst also being aware of the troubling time that we find ourselves in.  These words of Jesus remind us that our peace is found in Jesus:

“Peace I leave with you; my peace I give to you.  I do not give to you as the world gives.  Do not let your hearts be troubled, and do not let them be afraid.”
John 14:27

So today, I invite you to pray:

  • For those in the Armed Forces, many still in war zones around the world, and others helping out with the global pandemic.

  • For those on the front line of our current crisis, the doctors and nurses who put their lives on the line to care for the ill and dying.

  • For those who return from active service wounded, physically and mentally, and for those struggling with their mental health during this pandemic.

  • For those who have lost loved ones, through war or in this present time.

  • For those who toiled on the home front, in the fields and factories during the war effort; and the many key workers in shops and providing deliveries throughout our land.

  • For the Methodist Wales Synod, as we conclude the 15 months of prayer across Wales as a time of prayer for our church.

As Jesus offers peace, so we pray for the peace of this world,
peace among nations,
peace to the church,
peace within our communities,
peace within our homes
and peace in our hearts;
through Jesus Christ our Lord.  Amen.

Act of Commitment

Let us pledge ourselves anew to the service of God and our neighbours: that we may help, encourage and comfort others, and support those working for the relief of the needy and for the peace and welfare of the nations.

Lord God our Father,
we pledge ourselves to serve you and all humankind,
in the cause of peace,
for the relief of want and suffering,
and for the praise of your name.

Guide us by your Spirit;
give us wisdom;
give us courage;
give us hope;
and keep us faithful now and always.
Amen.

O Lord our God,
as we remember, teach us the ways of peace.
As we treasure memories, teach us to hope.
As we give thanks for the sacrifices of the past,
help us to make your future in this world,
until your kingdom come.
Amen.

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Prayers for 7th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Alexis Mahoney.

You can download a copy of these prayers here.

New ways of living:

Most people don’t like change, do they?  I know from my own experiences that change can bring with it anxiety and even resentment.

However, change can also bring excitement and hope that the ‘something new’ will bring with it a better way of being or living.  I suppose it depends on whether your natural inclinations are that of an optimist or a pessimist.  Or whether the changes taking place are desirable or not, or whether you have a certain degree of control over them.  And also whether there’ll be any sacrifices of an ‘old’ way of living that you’ve been accustomed to and fond of.

One thing’s for sure, times have changed for us now.  And one of the things being in lockdown has done is bring to the fore the forthcoming potential of a ‘new normal’ of a post-Covid world.  Basically, everything has changed, and we need to prepare for and envision a new normal.

President Macron of France recently said that “this is not a time for falling back on comfortable ideology.  We need to get off the beaten track, reinvent ourselves, find new ways of living”.  And I have to agree with him.  And I think that this applies as much to our wider society and culture as it does for our churches, our Circuits and our Synod.

I fully realise that there’s been a call for the church to adapt and change for many, many years, and that I’m definitely not the first to say this.  But maybe, just maybe, this now is our opportunity to fully reflect on what it might mean for us to make those changes that we’ve been too worried to contemplate, let alone implement.

“Lord Father, Son and Holy Spirit,
When Jesus Christ came into the world you created,
he gave us a message of hope of love for all the world.
Through his grace and love for us all,
which overflows with such profligate generosity,
he also gave us his own life on The Cross. 

And, Lord of wonder and miracle,
you also gave us the wonderful hope of resurrection and new life.
We are an Easter people who live to be born anew,
to love, and be loved by you. 

Lord, we ask that you give us the courage and comfort of the Holy Spirit as we face change in our lives.

 As we face a new normal in our society and cultures,
let it be one which contains a continuity of what is good from the old,
and likewise let us see clearly what needs to be changed.

Gracious Lord, we know how much you love us and love your Church,
So we pray that our churches, our Circuits and our Synod be filled with new hope and a clear vision for what will be our own new normal.
Let our new vision be one which is clear enough to know that it is of You,
and that we may be brave enough to see it through.

For thy Kingdom come,
thy will be done,
on Earth,
as it is in heaven. 

In Jesus name we pray.  Amen.

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Prayers for 6th May

Today’s thoughts are provided by Rev. Alexis Mahoney.

You can download a copy of these prayers here.

Dreams:

I don’t know about you, but my dreams have become more vivid, more frequent and more memorable while we’ve been in lockdown.  Some of them are almost definitely ‘anxiety dreams’, and some are so bizarre I wouldn’t know where to start describing them!

But apparently, I’m not the only one currently experiencing vivid dreams while we’ve all been in lockdown.  Already there’s a research project being undertaken by a group of postgraduate psychoanalysis students in London asking people to fill in an online survey about the dreams they are having at the moment.  (If you feel brave enough or adventurous enough to do so yourself you can click on this link and tell them one or more of yours: http://lockdowndreams.com/).  Essentially, the aim is to collect and analyse a variety of dreams to see how the Covid-19 crisis is being experienced “unconsciously”.

I’ve long been fascinated by dreams and visions in the Bible.  Though there’s the caveat that much dreaming can be meaningless (Eccles 5.7), there’s also passages which suggest that dream interpretations belong to God (Gen 40.8), and that dreams can be of the Holy Spirit (Acts 2.17).

As I see it, dreams are one of the ways God engages with us; through our imagination and unconscious states of mind.  They can be a way of seeing things anew, as well as providing us with a new ‘vision’ for how things could and should be.

In light of this, I invite you to pray that our dreams will be from God; or if they seem unintelligible to us that we offer them back to God in prayer; or if they’re clearly not from God then to put them down to an interesting experience.   Either way, let’s keep our dreams in our daily prayers and reflections.

“Lord Father, Son and Holy Spirit,
you are so full of mystery and majesty;
your ways are not our ways,
and can be so strange to us sometimes.

But your still, small voice,
persistently and gently whispers of your unending love for us all;
of your plans of abundant life for us all. 

Yet we so often prefer to just listen to our own voices,
or the voices that speak so loudly and confidently, and with such self-proclaimed ‘knowledge’ around us.

Lord, we know from Scripture that one of the ways you speak with us,
is through dreams;
So we ask you that while we’re all in lockdown,
and where dreams have curiously come into the foreground of our current experiences,
that you fill our dreams with comfort and hope,
and a vision for the future.

We pray that our dreams enable us to see Your way, anew.
We pray that our dreams will give us courage to rise to the challenge of new insights you have given us.
And we pray that whatever dream is not from you will be easily discerned,
and that whatever dreams you may send us are prayerfully interpreted.

Lord, we are thankful for whatever dreams you send us,
but right now we ask that you send us dreams of hope for the future.
We ask for dreams that show us how we can live in our world right now;
and how we can defeat Covid-19.
And we ask for dreams that show us how we can live in a post-Covid world,
how our churches, our Circuits and our Synod can be Christ’s true church,
in a brave new world,
that cares more,
loves more,
prays more,
with you at the centre of all we do. 

In Jesus name we pray.  Amen”.

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